We want to wish all of our clients a happy and safe holiday season. If you and your family have been having a great year, we wish you more of that; but, if you have been having a run of bad luck, or some negative recurring patterns of unhappiness shrouding your bliss, we wish you an end to troubles and brighter days this holiday season.
Regardless of our seasonal traditions of choice, the holiday season tends to have plenty of potential pitfalls that could lead to legal trouble. From drinking and driving, to tickets, car accidents and stressful situations that lead to violent arguments, the palpable energy of the holiday season can be misdirected in dangerous ways if we aren’t careful.
No matter the particular tradition we celebrate, this time of year is often filled with festivities that include the consumption of alcoholic beverages. Especially for folks who don’t often consume alcohol, it can be difficult to know if you are over the legal limit to drive or not. Even a family gathering with a few glasses of wine can put you over the legal limit. You can be sure there will be plenty of DWI roadblocks set up during this time of year. That isn’t where you want to find out that you are over the legal limit; and, the only way to lower your blood alcohol content (BAC) is metabolizing it over time. According to the
NY State DMV, "these drinks contain about the same amount of alcohol - 1 1/2 ounces of liquor, 5 ounces of wine, 12 ounces of beer and 12 ounces of wine cooler. None is "safer to drink" than the others"; and, the average 150-pound male can metabolize one of those drinks per hour. A cup of coffee won’t help reduce your BAC, unless you take an hour per alcoholic beverage you’ve consumed to drink it.
But you might not process alcohol as quickly as the average 150-pound male, and your healthy glass of wine might be larger than 5 ounces. Guessing if you are over the legal limit or not isn't a fool-proof strategy to avoid a legal conviction.
If you know you will be consuming alcohol, it might be a better bet to have a safe ride home planned in advance. If you can have a designated driver who abstains from drinking, that is a very affordable solution to prevent a potentially expensive legal situation. If a designated driver isn’t available, there are other options. Today, the widespread availability of
taxi cabs,
Uber, and
Lyft
rides leaves little excuse to drink and drive.
The key to your safe ride home may simply lie in your ability to plan ahead. Before you head out to the friendly gathering or party, have a plan to delegate your ride home to a sober professional or an alcohol-free friendly designated driver. If you wait to plan until after you’ve started consuming alcohol, you might not make the wisest decision. But if you do choose to drive after you have been drinking, know that we are here for you should you find yourself facing legal troubles; and, we are just a phone call away.
Drinking and driving isn’t the only holiday hazard we might choose to avoid this season. Focusing on the things in our lives that we are truly grateful for is an excellent way to maintain a healthy outlook through this time of year when emotions run high for many people. But, even if we are maintaining an attitude of gratitude, that doesn’t mean that everyone in our life is equally aware of the abundant good that is informing our decisions. The holiday season can be a source of stress for many people. Unpaid debts may feel even more burdensome during this season of giving. Bills, credit card debts, child support payments, spousal support, and past dreams unfulfilled all may feel heavier around the holidays. And, mixing all of our stress with alcohol can be a dangerous cocktail.
Too often verbal disputes between couples turn abusive during this time of year; and, disputes among separated or divorced couples over child visitation plans can ruin the celebration for all involved. It is important to recognize that consuming alcohol can impact our ability to compassionately reason with our loved ones or ex-partners. We might choose to avoid charged conversations if we have been drinking. Even without alcohol, this time of year could be a trigger for us or the other person. This time of year, we might choose to give ourselves and the other person more time and space to process emotions than we normally might feel is needed. We recognize that sometimes interactions with others just don’t go the way we might have wanted them to. If your interaction turns into a legal matter this holiday season, know that we are here for you and just a phone call away.
No matter what holiday tradition you practice, the notion of helping your neighbor is probably front and center to your way of life. It is for us here at Kurtz Law Offices as well. If you need legal help today, don’t wait until after the season to reach out. Whether you are a past client of ours, or a current client-to-be, we have a free phone consultation available and waiting for you if you need it this holiday season. We are here to help. Give us a call for your free phone consultation today.